
Idioms: relationships and communication
Learn the idioms English speakers use to talk about relationships, conversations, and how people treat each other.
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Terms in this deck
- break the newsto tell someone important, often difficult, news
- get along like a house on fireto get along extremely well with someone
- have a heart-to-heartto have an honest, personal conversation
- keep someone postedto keep someone updated with new information
- lend an earto listen to someone talk about their problems
- bury the hatchetto end a conflict and become friends again
- give someone the cold shoulderto deliberately ignore someone
- mend fencesto repair a damaged relationship
- on good termshaving a friendly relationship with someone
- put words in someone's mouthto claim someone said something they didn't actually say
- get the wrong end of the stickto misunderstand something completely
- talk behind someone's backto say negative things about someone when they're not there
- break the silenceto say something after a period of quiet
- get a word in edgewiseto manage to say something when someone else won't stop talking
- small talklight, casual conversation about unimportant things
- straight from the horse's mouthinformation from the person directly involved, so reliable
- wear your heart on your sleeveto openly show your emotions to others
- take someone's word for itto believe what someone says without needing proof
- read someone like a bookto understand someone's thoughts and feelings very easily
- spill the beansto reveal a secret, often accidentally
- have words with someoneto argue with someone about something
- clear the airto resolve a disagreement or misunderstanding by talking openly
- cut someone some slackto not judge someone too harshly
- two-way streetsomething that requires effort from both people involved
- birds of a feather flock togethersaying that similar people tend to become friends
- a shoulder to cry ona person who comforts you when you're upset
- keep in touchto continue communicating with someone over time
- put yourself in someone's shoesto imagine how someone else feels in their situation
- give someone a piece of your mindto tell someone angrily exactly what you think about something they did
How to study this deck
These idioms describe friendships, conflicts and reconciliations: "bury the hatchet", "give someone the cold shoulder", "mend fences". Learn the ones used for positive relationships and those describing tension. Practice telling an argument and how it was resolved, using at least three of these expressions.
The trickiest words
- bury the hatchet: it means to make peace after a conflict.
- give someone the cold shoulder: it means to deliberately ignore someone.
- keep someone posted: it means to keep someone updated on news.
Examples in context
I have to break the news to my parents.
I'll keep you posted on the results.
It's time to mend fences with your brother.
I think you got the wrong end of the stick.
I'm not good at small talk.
His mother can read him like a book.
Let's clear the air before the trip.
She's always been a shoulder to cry on.
Mini dialogue
- A: Did you and Ana make up?
- B: Yes, we buried the hatchet last week.
- A: She gave me the cold shoulder for months.
- B: Now we are on good terms. I will keep you posted.