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Want, wish, or hope

Want is simply wanting something, wish is for things that are unreal or unlikely, and hope is for things that might really happen.

Quick rule

Something possible? Hope. Something unreal, or a regret? Wish, plus a past form. Simply wanting something? Want.

Want

To desire something: want + a thing, want + to + verb, or want + someone + to + verb.

Wish

For things that are unreal or unlikely: I wish I had more time. Also to say what you want for someone: wish you luck.

Hope

To want something that is possible: I hope it doesn't rain. It takes the present or future, or to + verb.

How to choose

Questions to choose between want, wish, or hope
Questionwantwishhope
Does it go with something unreal or too late to change (I had, I were)?NoYesNo
Can a clause in the present or future follow it (it works)?NoNoYes
Can a thing come right after it (a coffee)?YesSometimesNo

Why it trips people up

Hope looks at something that can still happen, so the verb after it stays in the present or future. Wish looks at something unreal or too late, so the verb shifts back: I wish I knew. Want simply names what you would like.

How each one works

Want

  • Want + thing

    I want a new phone.

  • Want + to + verb

    Do you want to come with us?

  • Wanting someone to do something

    My mom wants me to call her.

Wish

  • Unreal now: wish + past

    I wish I spoke French.

  • Regret: wish + past perfect

    I wish I hadn't said that.

  • Wishing something for someone

    We wish you a happy new year.

Hope

  • Something possible: hope + present

    I hope you feel better soon.

  • Hope + to + verb: a plan

    We're hoping to buy a house next year.

  • I hope so, I hope not

    Will it be sunny tomorrow? I hope so.

What comes next

  • want plus person plus to plus verb

    I want you to meet my sister.

  • wish plus past simple

    I wish I lived near the beach.

  • wish plus had plus past participle

    She wishes she had taken the job.

  • wish plus person plus thing

    Wish me luck!

  • hope plus present

    I hope the bus isn't late.

  • hope plus to plus verb

    They hope to finish by Friday.

Almost the same

I hope I pass the exam.

It can still happen: hope + present.

I wish I had passed the exam.

Too late to change: wish + had.

I want to pass the exam.

It just says what you want.

In a conversation

  1. A:

    I wish I didn't have to work tomorrow.

  2. B:

    Do you want to go to the lake on Sunday instead?

  3. A:

    Sure! I hope the weather stays nice.

  4. B:

    Me too. I'll bring the sandwiches.

Common mistakes

Wrong: I wish I will pass the exam.

Right: I hope I will pass the exam.

For something you want in the future, Cambridge says hope, not wish. Wish is not followed by a present or future verb.

Wrong: I don't hope it rains tomorrow.

Right: I hope it doesn't rain tomorrow.

Hope is not normally made negative. Put the not in the clause after it.

Memory trick

Could it happen? Hope. Is it unreal or too late? Wish, with the verb shifted back (I wish I had). Just saying what you would like? Want.

It depends

Was or were after wish
Oxford lists both I wish I were taller and I wish I was taller. Were is the more careful choice in writing.
I wish you would...
Wish + would is usually a complaint about someone else, such as a noise or a habit that annoys you.

FAQ

Wish or hope: which is correct?

Use hope for things that can still happen (I hope you feel better) and wish for things that are unreal now (I wish I could help).

"I wish you" or "I hope you"?

I wish you takes a noun: I wish you all the best. I hope you takes a clause: I hope you have a great day.

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Written by Bryan López, founder of SpeakUP Academy · updated · Level: Intermediate
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