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DependvsRely

"Depend" expresses uncertainty or condition; "rely" expresses firm trust in someone or something.

Side-by-side comparison

Depend
verbo

To depend on an uncertain condition, or to need something/someone. Always followed by "on".

  • Whether we go to the beach depends on the weather.

  • It depends, what time are you planning to leave?

  • Children depend on their parents for everything in the early years.

Rely
verbo

To firmly trust in something or someone. Implies that person or thing is dependable. Followed by "on".

  • You can rely on her. She always keeps her promises.

  • I rely on public transport to get to work every day.

  • Do not rely solely on one source of income.

Common mistake

  • •"Depend on" and "rely on" are nearly interchangeable, but "rely on" always carries a positive connotation of active trust.
  • •"She depends on others" can imply excessive dependence; "She relies on others" implies she trusts them with good reason.

Trick to remember it

  • •To praise someone's reliability: "You can rely on her".
  • •To describe a condition without judgment: "It depends on the weather".
  • •"Rely" = I actively trust.
  • •"Depend" = I am conditional or in need.

Quick rule

  • •"Depend on" = to be conditional on or in need of (neutral).
  • •"Rely on" = to firmly trust someone or something reliable (positive).

Did you know?

"Reliable" comes from "rely" + "-able". "Dependable" comes from "depend" + "-able". Interestingly, as adjectives both form nearly synonymous words used interchangeably: "a reliable car" = "a dependable car". But the verbs diverge more in usage. Reliability as a quality unites them; verbal usage distinguishes them.

Practise what you learned

Exercise 1 · Pick the right one

You can always _____ on her. She never lets anyone down.

Exercise 2 · Pick the right one

"Will you come to the party?" "It _____ s on whether I finish work in time."

Exercise 3 · Form the word

Complete: "Young children _____ on their parents for everything." (depend / rely)

Bryan López

Founder of SpeakUP Academy