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ForgetvsMiss

"Forget" = to fail to remember; "miss" = to long for something or to fail to catch/attend something.

Side-by-side comparison

Forget
verbo

To fail to remember something, or to fail to do something through carelessness.

  • I forgot my phone at home. I have to go back.

  • Don't forget to lock the door when you leave.

  • I completely forgot that we had a meeting this morning.

Miss
verbo

To long for someone or something. Also: to fail to reach, catch, or attend something.

  • I really miss my family. It has been six months since I saw them.

  • She missed the bus and had to take a taxi to the airport.

  • I missed the best part of the movie because I was in the bathroom.

Common mistake

"I miss my country" = I long for my country (I love it, it is not here). "I forget my country" = I am forgetting my country (removing it from memory). They are completely different. And "I missed to attend" is wrong: "miss" takes a noun or gerund ("I missed attending" / "I missed the meeting").

Trick to remember it

"Miss" has two main uses:

  • 1.to long for ("I miss you").
  • 2.to fail to catch or attend ("I missed the train", "I missed the deadline"). To forget or fail to remember to do something: always "forget".

Quick rule

  • •"Forget" = fail to remember or fail to do something.
  • •"Miss" = long for something absent, or fail to catch or attend something.

Did you know?

In informal English, "near miss" (almost-accident) is so ingrained that many use it even though technically it should be a "near hit", the "near miss" was almost a collision, not almost a failure. Another paradox of everyday English.

Practise what you learned

Exercise 1 · Pick the right one

She _____ es her family so much since moving abroad. She calls them every day.

Exercise 2 · Pick the right one

He always _____ s people's names. It's a bit embarrassing.

Exercise 3 · Form the word

Complete: "I really _____ having a garden. My new flat doesn't have one." (forget / miss)

Bryan López

Founder of SpeakUP Academy