When do I use "Remember" and when do I use "Remind"?

Does the memory come from your own mind? "Remember". Do you need external help to not forget? "Remind".

What is the most common mistake with "Remember" and "Remind"?

"Remember me to buy milk" when asking someone to help you not forget is wrong (correct: Remind me to buy milk). "Remember" is the memory that comes from inside you; "remind" is the external nudge that someone or something gives you.

How do I remember the difference between "Remember" and "Remind"?

"Remember" = the memory comes from INSIDE you. "Remind" = someone or something gives you a nudge FROM OUTSIDE. If you need external help to not forget, use "remind."

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RemembervsRemind

One is recalling something yourself, the other is making someone else recall it.

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Remember

verb

"Remember" is to bring something to your own mind: the memory comes from within you. "I remembered her birthday" = the memory came to me on its own.

I remember my first day at school clearly.
Do you remember where you put your keys?
She did not remember to call him.

Remind

verb

"Remind" is to cause someone else to remember something: the trigger comes from outside. "Remind me to call her" = I need you to prompt me so I do not forget.

Can you remind me to call the doctor?
She reminded her son to take his umbrella.
Please remind me about the meeting tomorrow.

Common mistake

•"Remember me to buy milk" when asking someone to help you not forget is wrong (correct: Remind me to buy milk).
•"Remember" is the memory that comes from inside you; "remind" is the external nudge that someone or something gives you.

Trick to remember it

•"Remember" = the memory comes from INSIDE you.
•"Remind" = someone or something gives you a nudge FROM OUTSIDE.
•If you need external help to not forget, use "remind."

Quick rule

•Does the memory come from your own mind? "Remember".
•Do you need external help to not forget? "Remind".

Did you know?

"This reminds me of..." is one of the most frequent phrases in natural English conversation and works as a conversational bridge: it connects something present with a past memory. "This coffee reminds me of my trip to Italy." The structure is always REMIND + me/him/her/us + of + the memory. There is also "a reminder": a physical or digital prompt. "Set a reminder" = create a digital alert. And "reminder email" = follow-up email. REMEMBER does not have this nominal equivalent: there is no "a rememberer" as an object or system.