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With certain verbs (remember, stop, try), the choice between infinitive and gerund completely changes the meaning.

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With certain verbs, choosing the infinitive or the gerund changes the meaning. "Stop smoking" means to quit; "stop to smoke" means to pause in order to smoke.

  • Please remember to lock the door when you leave, it is very important for security.

  • She stopped to look at the flowers in the market window on her way home from work.

  • I regret to say that the last ticket was sold just five minutes before you arrived here.

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The same happens with "remember", "forget", "try", and others. The infinitive refers to something future or intentional; the gerund refers to something past or habitual.

  • I remember meeting him at a friend's birthday party about three years ago in the summer.

  • He stopped smoking last year and says he feels so much healthier and happier now.

  • She regrets not studying harder, she could have done much better in the final exam.

Common mistake

The four meaning-changing pairs:

  • 1."stop to smoke" (pause to have a cigarette) vs "stop smoking" (quit smoking).
  • 2."Remember to call" (remember you must call) vs "remember calling" (recall having called).
  • 3.Most common error: "I stopped to smoke" when you mean you quit the habit.

Trick to remember it

  • •Infinitive = action yet to occur (future).
  • •Gerund = action already occurred or in progress (past or habitual).
  • •"Remember TO do it" = you still need to do it.
  • •"Remember DOING it" = you already did it.

Quick rule

  • •"Stop/remember/forget TO do" = future action (yet to happen).
  • •"Stop/remember/forget DOING" = past or habitual action.
  • •"Regret TO say" = you regret what you are about to say.
  • •"Regret SAYING" = you regret having said it.

Did you know?

Verbs like stop, remember, forget and regret change meaning depending on whether an infinitive or an -ing form follows. The choice of complement changes the time perspective: the infinitive looks toward the future ("I remembered to lock the door" = I did it as planned), while the -ing form looks back at the past ("I remember locking the door" = I recall the earlier action).

Practise what you learned

Exercise 1 · Pick the right one

"She stopped _____ her friend." Which means she stopped in order to talk?

Exercise 2 · Pick the right one

"She stopped _____ her friend." Which means she quit the habit of talking?

Exercise 3 · Form the word

Complete: "I remember _____ my keys before I left." (locking / to lock)

Bryan López

Founder of SpeakUP Academy