Which one to use?Intermediateverbverb

MeetvsKnow

Both can translate as 'conocer', but one is the first encounter and the other is ongoing familiarity.

Side-by-side comparison

Meet
verb

"Meet" is to encounter someone for the first time: the moment of first introduction. "I met her at a conference" = I was introduced to her at a conference for the first time.

  • I met my best friend in college.

  • Nice to meet you!

  • Where did you two meet?

Know
verb

"Know" is to be acquainted with someone through ongoing familiarity. "I know her well" = I have an established relationship with her and am familiar with who she is.

  • Do you know her? She is my sister.

  • I have known him for over ten years.

  • She knows everyone in this neighborhood.

Common mistake

  • •"I knew him yesterday" when you encountered him for the first time is wrong: the first contact is "met" (past of meet).
  • •"Knew" implies a pre-existing relationship.

Trick to remember it

  • •"Meet" = first contact, the moment of introduction.
  • •"Know" = ongoing relationship, already in your life.
  • •First time? "I met him." Already in your life? "I know him."

Quick rule

  • •Is it the first encounter? "Meet".
  • •Is there already a relationship or familiarity? "Know".

Did you know?

"Meet" is for the moment you first become acquainted; "know" is for the relationship that follows. "Nice to meet you" is said once, at the first encounter. After that, "I know her" is the right form. Mixing them gives odd results: "I know her yesterday" is wrong, and so is "I met her for years". A good check: if you can attach a moment ("yesterday", "at the party"), use "meet"; if you mean lasting familiarity, use "know".

Practise what you learned

Exercise 1 · Pick the right one

I've lived in this city for years but I still don't _____ many people here.

Exercise 2 · Pick the right one

We first _____ at a birthday party about three years ago.

Exercise 3 · Form the word

Complete: "Do you _____ anyone who speaks Japanese? I need a translator." (meet / know)

Bryan López

Founder of SpeakUP Academy